The Eating Disorder Meal Support Toolkit: Structure, Prompts, and Props

Meal support in disordered eating and eating disorder recovery is an essential way to build trust and community. When navigating nutrition consistency in this process, heightened emotions may often arise. The intention behind meal support is to create a safe space where a group of people can collectively nourish themselves together.

What Is Meal Support in Eating Disorder Recovery?

Traditionally, meal support is offered within higher-level care settings as part of the treatment program. In the world of modern technology and within our eating disorder-informed practice, we strive to provide this service to our clients in an outpatient setting. The benefit is that those in recovery can access a support resource from the comfort of their own space, led by trusted dietitians.

Below, we will explore the structure, prompts, and props of the meal support process to be applied in real life.

The Eating Disorder Meal Support Toolkit

Structure of a Meal Support Session

Meal support groups will begin with a dietitian’s support in putting finishing touches on a balanced plate and helping group members settle in and identify intentions for the mealtime. Members will be led in a grounding activity before the meal. Encouragement and guidance will be offered during the meal; the dietitian leading the group will guide conversation and ensure that topics being discussed are comfortable for all in attendance. If you prefer to listen rather than engage based on your comfort level, we understand this. The group will conclude with a post-meal check-in and skill application, as needed.

Participants should join in a comfortable and private space, free from distractions, so that they can fully focus on the meal in a supportive environment. It’s also essential to attend the meeting with the camera on so that we can keep an open line of interaction with one another!

We recommend coming to meal support groups with a meal of your choice. This meal could have been pre-planned in collaboration with your treatment team or chosen independently by you. It is ideal to ensure that you’ll have the utensils and necessary components you need at the beginning of the meeting (e.g., napkins, a glass of water, food heated up before the start of the meeting, if applicable).

Prompts for Reflection During Meals

During the meal support process, it can be valuable to take time for reflection, either internally or by recording your thoughts in a personal journal. Doing so can help increase self-awareness, track progress, and strengthen coping skills throughout your recovery journey. Here are some questions you might reflect on:

•   What is my current hunger or fullness level on a scale of 1-10?
•   What thoughts about my food or body are coming up?
•   What coping strategies can I use if I feel anxious during the meal?
•   How can I practice self-compassion during this meal?

Props to Support the Meal Experience

It may be helpful to have props or tools so that you get the most out of your meal support experience. Examples might include:

Using a Journal for Reflection During Meal Support

Journaling is a powerful tool for reflection, helping you process the meal support experience and track your progress over time. Check out the prompts above for journaling ideas to enhance this experience!

Affirmation and Mindfulness Cards for Encouragement

Affirmation or mindfulness cues can be kept nearby during a meal for encouragement. Whether these are physical cards or an app on your phone, uplifting words can be of support in challenging moments. These tools can be utilized before, during, or after a meal to provide supportive reinforcement.

Fidget Tools to Reduce Mealtime Anxiety

Fidgets can offer a structured outlet for nervous energy. When using fidgets properly, a calming effect and improved focus are just a few positive outcomes you might experience. A few examples of fidgets include taking a moment to squeeze a stress ball or twist a cube in a cyclic motion. The benefit of these tools is that they generally aid in decreasing distress through repetition of use during moments of built-up emotion.

Warm and Cool Objects for Comfort and Grounding

Incorporating a warm object can aid in providing comfort, whereas the use of a cool object can aid with grounding in the present moment. Whether you are holding a warm mug or squeezing a frozen fruit, these tools can be used as a method during meal support to promote emotional regulation through sensory intervention.

 If you are interested in participating in meal support groups, please contact [email protected] to get started and reserve your spot.

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